Sunday, December 5, 2010

Ups and Downs of Relationships

Are you in a relationship and feel neglected and rejected? You are constantly arguing with your lover and it seems solving the issues is not easy until you have decided to let go, yet you still feel something for the other spouse. Don't worry this is normal in relationships.

Relationships that have worked for a considerable amount of time do not lack arguments and disagreements, most people who have been in relationships will tell you this is normal since people are usually different from each other and the needs vary.

For those men who have broken up with their lover, its important to consider how the past few days have been without her by your side, did you enjoy the time or it was full of void because she wasn't around, if you did not enjoy the time then its time to get the queen of your life back. This may not be easy but if you put the following aspects into consideration then your life might be easy.

First before taking any step, assess your self and see if there is anything that has changed since you met with each other, if some of the things have changed, this might be some f the reasons that she doesn't love you anymore and you need to do something about it.

Another thing when it has reached time for break up, don't behave as if you are scared of losing her, instead agree to have the timeout, this will ease things in the coming days, you wont have to face the problem of you pleading with her to return back to your arms.

After the timeout is over, you should emphasize more on the sweet time and memories that you have shared; this will make your work easier since she will feel that you are more important to her.

If she requests you to be her friend and not intimate as you had been before, then avoid this because it will only worsen things since you will be tortured especially of the intimate moments that you have ever shared together, this is not good for you.

Tell her the truth. That you cannot live without her, avoid beating around the bush and never accept friendship at the expense of the relationship you have had together.

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