Monday, December 6, 2010

10 Ways To Keep Your Woman Happy

Know what it takes to keep your woman happy? If you want to save the relationship and keep the fires burning, learn these 10 ways to make your woman happy and keep her that way.

1. Be yourself at all times. Putting up a front may work at the start of the relationship when you are trying to make an impression but this may not be effective for the long term. Many men think and feel that they are not good enough to get the woman they desire; and this diminishes their self-confidence. But do you know that confidence is a sexy trait that is a natural come on? A confident man oozes with sex appeal and self-confidence is more potent than just good looks or a sexy body. Women feel safe and secure being with a man who is not afraid to show his true self to others. Being yourself and confidently showing it rids you of hang-ups and makes you act naturally.

2. The little things matter the most. Offer to take her to her dance classes or buy her a box of her favorite donuts. Or surprise her with a cup of her favorite cappuccino. Your woman will love these little things that you can do for her. It is not the grand gestures which make the most points with women; it is the little things you can do that ooze with thoughtfulness that will melt her heart.

3. Be more vocal in your appreciation of her. Taking her for granted is a no-no. Tell her how you value her. Women love to hear this and you can never say this too much.

4. Never, I mean never, look at other women when you are with your woman. Women are very sensitive about this. When she sees you looking at other women, feelings of inadequacy creep in and makes your woman feel bad. Remember women are more likely to be in a relationship with the long term in mind. And when she sees you ogling at other women, she will sense that you may not be into the relationship for the long term, making her give up on you.

5. Inject humor into the relationship. Make your woman laugh. A man with a sense of humor is more attractive than someone who is so serious all the time.

6. Discover common interests. When you and your woman do things together, you strengthen the bond between you. Take interest in what she is interested in. This is a very powerful way of showing her you really care and this will gain you a ton of points in her heart.

7. Don't get sloppy with your looks. Just because you have been with your woman for a while doesn't mean you should get lax with how you look. Shave on weekends and maintain that neat, clean look that attracted her to you in the first place. Keep up with the latest trends in fashion. Don't dress shabbily just because you've landed your woman.

8. Make an effort to know and get along with her family and friends. Be part of her life and take interest in her circle of friends. Women need her friends and family to validate her choice in a man so make extra effort to make an impression.

9. Be sensitive to your woman's feelings. Be considerate when she is feeling low or having one of her bad days. Sometimes it's all hormonal and women can't help it. And if she feels that you are with her 100% through the good and bad times, she will love you more for it.

10. Be open to trying out new things with your woman. Don't stagnate. If you do things the same way over and over again these become routine and boring. Being in the relationship for a while, you and your woman will have a tendency to just stay in your comfort zones. Take the initiative to discover and try out new things together and inject excitement back into the relationship.

These are simple, easy to do tips that you can do to save the relationship from trouble. Do not trap yourself into complacency. A relationship has to be nurtured for this to develop and flourish. Don't allow yourself to be ensnared in your own comfort zone. If you feel that your relationship is in a rut and are wondering how to make your woman happy, follow these tips and you will be on your way in your quest to save the relationship

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